A few months ago, I was talking to some of my friends when the topic of losing our virginity came up. As my friends talked about how old they were and what it was like for them, I sat there quietly, giggling at their stories and nodding enthusiastically without actually contributing anything to the conversation. Why would I do this, when one of my favorite things ever is dishing about embarrassing sex stories? Years ago, I had come to the sad realization that, um, I don’t remember losing my virginity. Seriously. I really don’t remember.